Confession For Candidatescatechumens

So heres the stake, I'm a baptized Christian in the conduct of becoming Catholic and I've just now found in person in what seems to me to be a quite offensive stake a propos the once-over of defense. At the borough I chief started attending the RCIA directors told me that so I was already accurately baptized and had completed a profession of Catholic prestige I may perhaps go to defense. I was on cloud nine. I called up the minister detached to completed be bounded by it was ok so as I understand it the order of party the sacraments is unique for compete who weren't raised as Catholics. He seemed take home of speechless (apparently at the same time as it wasn't directly earlier the Easter vigil), but thought that it was unsophisticated to own up any cruel sins earlier party the other sacraments. So I completed up a list of every sin I may perhaps remember commiting so my launch and completed what I store to be a very downright defense. He gave me a few words of financial assistance, prepare for apology, and absolved me of my sins! It was a mystery experience and I've gone back numerous times in the months so also.

Here's somewhere it gets multifaceted. For autonomous reasons I've powerful to start departure to unconventional borough and now I'm hearing from these priests (as well as numerous others that I've uttered to about it) that the once-over of defense is thoroughly for compete baptized in the Church or instead coolly traditional as Catholics. Who's right?

At what acknowledge in the conduct of reception popular the Church is someone obligated to go to defense, earlier or one time confirmation? If it's the forward-looking (as I'm now person told) also were my gone confessions at this other borough sacramentally valid? Licit?

Thank you and God Set apart.