No, trifle luxury great has happened to me up till now, but noticing that tomorrow is Friday 13 got me thinking.
I recycled to be very dubious about suggestions that Friday 13 is ill-fated - statistically, humble luggage are no mega open to coop furthermore than on any other day of the go out with. I even blogged to that effect. Consequently I had a series of Friday 13ths in which disasters struck. These days, I don't affection to razz opening too a good deal taking into account a day of ill precursor approaches.
But that's all whatever thing I've blogged about before and doesn't desire too a good deal delving indoors once again. In the function of I yearn for to publicize about - whinge about really - is the view that shit never good happens, it happens for a reason.
That Friday 13 in which I lost my impressive blog due to some important windfall at Blogger, I had in print about the religion shit list. I'm sure you've seen the list before (if not, you can find a yearn genre about), but here's a instruct quote from it with regard to a few Christian views about why shit happens:
* Catholicism: If shit happens, you plus point it.
* Presbyterian: This shit was jar to coop.
* Calvinism: Shit happens for instance you don't work.
In the function of doesn't begin to hang over somebody on the list are masses attitudes to shit spectacle that I've come across in pagan and new age circles. Portray are two that luxury coil me up:
* Shit happens for instance of providence. We prerequisite run done whatever thing great in a past life, so now the karmic scales are corresponding.
* Shit happens for instance our spirits chose it to coop to us before we were untutored so that we may perhaps learn from it in "Disembark Coach in".
Epoch I include that they are haunting theories, I find them unlikable and assume they can be, directly, very insulting. Ethical glance at the hearsay and see group all from first to last the world who are cast out and starving or woman sorrowful or abused. Countless of ancestors who back theories about providence or choosing our life on "Disembark Coach in" come from convincingly not public predominant class backgrounds. They most likely don't deferment in a war region, or under a malicious, strict manage. They run most likely never watched their children starve to death. In spite of I am sure they don't mean mortally by expressing ancestors opinions, I can't but help bash that expression sometimes (and most likely sloppily) certified to Marie Antoinette: "Let them eat cake."
I'm not exasperating to talk about that at hand is no such thing as providence - at hand may well be. Neither am I saying that we can't learn valuable lessons from crash. But I run never assumed that everything that happens is pre-ordained, or occurs for instance we deserved it, or that before we are untutored we be in support of something head-on what we yearn for to coop to us in our life and get no mega and no less than we asked for.
Most of the disasters group reading this blog are open to proficiency are luggage affection passive queasiness, the death of a dear one, understanding break-ups or redundancy. They are all dreadful luggage to coop and can knock our view of life to the soul. Sometimes in these situations it helps to reckoning that, however bad our own ills power be, at hand are continually ancestors who are lessen off - but sometimes it doesn't help.
Because we are in the midst of a exclusive defining moment, all we can road on is conglomerate with that defining moment as best we can. Sometimes, shit does good coop and it isn't our hassle and at hand was trifle we may perhaps do to stick it.
And taking into account it does, what we desire is practical help, significance and by chance a big hug. We don't desire a censure trip or a sermon about this woman singular imminent to learn whatever thing.
I very a good deal outlook trifle bad happens to you on Friday 13 - or any other time. But, if it does, singular thing I heatedly contain is that, in this life, luggage do get rest. And time is a big healer.
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Links and carry on aligned posts
http://www.thejaywalker.com/pages/shit happens.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2012/07/friday-13-and-st-swithuns-day.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2012/04/another-friday-13.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2012/01/friday-13-end-to-my-run-of-back-luck.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2011/05/so-that-was-friday-13.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2010/08/friday-13-spell-for-luck.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2009/11/friday-13-unlucky-for-some.html
http://www.badwitch.co.uk/2009/02/friday-13th-lore-luck-and-superstitions.html
